Cheating is an ongoing subject that plaques today's society. It has happened to many and if it has not happened, just know that it can happen. There are many people that claim to have never cheated and kudos to those people, keep up great work. It takes hard work and extreme dedication to be and stay faithful these days. I went on a small mission to ask a few men that were willing to give me insight, Why Do Men Cheat? My goal was to gain a fresh perspective. The cheater is not necessarily an evil person, but is sometimes crying out for change. Others just want to have their cake and eat it as well. I have polled various anonymous men in search of their insight. I was able to get six of them to give me their feedback right away so here goes...
Guy 1: Hello Calley, I am always glad to oblige you in these conversations! I have been a cheater for various reasons, just as I've been in monogamous relationships for various reasons. I've cheated out of boredom in the bedroom, more times than enough just for "male braggadocio". Sometimes because I was being cheated on. At times, I messed up a good thing over really nothing. Most of these endeavors occurred when I was younger, not really of sound mind, and not really knowing better.
Guy 2: Calz, if a good man cheats, I can tell you it is because his woman is not doing her part. I cheated once years ago and it was because I needed the attention I was not getting from my woman at the time. I am simple, give me my OT, we go out and have fun, and I’m happy. Take that away and the longer I went without it, I began looking for someone who would give it to me
Guy 3: Men cheat because it is naturally programmed in our DNA. I do not know why but there is something about a new woman. They drive us crazy to the point of cheating on our significant others.
Guy 4: Well, there are all types of reasons ya know? No good conversation, women not pleasing their men like those men want, other women hitting on those men. Some of us are just straight up dogs. Also, these sideline Hoes will outdo the main woman because she want the main woman’s spot.
Guy 5: Men cheat for a few reasons. Some cheat for the chase, others do it because of having been cheated on, and some men cheat to feel like they still got it. Even if they are still with the person, sometimes they cheat out of habit that was passed down (heredity) and it is in their blood to cheat.
Guy 6: There are so many reasons why we cheat. The simplest reason is just this, Cause We Can...
Guy 7: Men cheat for various reasons, one is because they lack maturity in relationships, and not truly ready to settle down with one woman SEXUALLY, some because their woman isn't pleasing them, and last but not least, because they fell to look to God as their head.
Guy 8: No affection, emotion, they're selfish and no sex.
In closing, I have to commend all of you for giving us your honesty. I overheard a couple while shopping recently speaking about cheating. The woman kept telling the man that if he wanted to cheat, go ahead. He kept trying to reassure her that he was not but she pretty much insisted. My dad once told me that he started cheating on my mom because my mom kept accusing him so he did it. I would love for there to come a time in our world whereas “Cheating” in general is not the center of our focus in relationships. We need to focus on strengthening our relationships as opposed to sabotaging them. Thank you for reading!
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